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We are
quite a formal people. It might be due to our history, to the fact that we have
been ruled by many people, each one imposing its rules and dominion over us. It
could be .
What is
important is that we love appellation: we love to be called dottore, ingegnere,
cavaliere, commendatore, and so on. We do love honors, although many of them
are absolutely void, without any meaning.
This love
for useless titles produces a formal approach. If you meet for the first time
someone, especially if you are dealing with the decision maker, very often the
owner or someone of the proprietor family, you should use a very formal and
respectful language.
If you can
use the Italian language, you should address her/him using “lei” instead of
“tu”, of course this is impossible if you use English.
Avoid
calling the guy with her/his name, use the surname (family name) instead always
adding Mr. or Mrs.
And please
note that although we actually live in a different world, some old habits are still
alive. Never call a lady miss when she could be over 30, once it meant that she
was supposed to be spinster. Ok, nowadays this means nothing, but the habit
remained, don’t ask me why…
Formality
means also that you have to be sharp and respect time schedule, while your guest
could be late (it’s a way used in the ages to show power: the old landlords used
to do this) and that you have to keep your promises.
Too hard
and complicated’
Just
consider the last figures presented by Intesa San Paolo Monitor: Italian export
increased by a two digit growth for the fifth quarter in a row (12,9% II qrt
2011) in all the major segment of the typical SME that constitutes the
backbones of our country.
Would you
be part of that?